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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 27.06.2025 10:57

How does one succeed in life?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Procrastinates a lot.

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

If you were to write a book about being a K-pop fan, what would the last sentence be?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

That's it for today.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Ask yourself:

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Making more friends is a goal.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

If you have curly hair, when should you brush it?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

How do I come out as queer to my best friend in a funny and stupid way?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Does not procrastinate.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

What I need from you?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.